这是我在网络感情世界看到的一则留言。。。 一向来我从不能简简单单的表达我对感情的期待与要求。。。 这则留言一针见我血。。。
If your partner has asked you not to have one-on-one interaction with friends of the opposite sex, and you do it anyway, without telling them, then it's cheating. On the other hand, if your partner has told you they don't care if you have sex with someone else, then when you do it, it's not cheating. You just have to establish exactly where the line is, and then not cross it. Personally, I wouldn't want my girlfriend to have a "date" with a guy under 2 circumstances:
1) She knows he wants to sleep with her.
2) She knows she may become interested in him as more than a friend.
As long as she doesn't meet someone under the above two situations, I don't mind if she has breakfast, lunch, or dinner with another man. I have enough confidence in her love of me that I know she won't do anything inappropriate otherwise.
If your partner has asked you not to have one-on-one interaction with friends of the opposite sex, and you do it anyway, without telling them, then it's cheating. On the other hand, if your partner has told you they don't care if you have sex with someone else, then when you do it, it's not cheating. You just have to establish exactly where the line is, and then not cross it. Personally, I wouldn't want my girlfriend to have a "date" with a guy under 2 circumstances:
1) She knows he wants to sleep with her.
2) She knows she may become interested in him as more than a friend.
As long as she doesn't meet someone under the above two situations, I don't mind if she has breakfast, lunch, or dinner with another man. I have enough confidence in her love of me that I know she won't do anything inappropriate otherwise.
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